New Durham, NH

Gary B. Wilder, 75, of New Durham, NH passed away on April 24, 2021 in Wolfeboro NH. He was born in Westford, MA to Chrystabelle and Bernard Wilder on January 24, 1946. He attended Westford Academy and graduated as a Cadet Captain with his Bachelor's degree from Norwich University in 1967.

He worked as a Senior Buyer for Wang Laboratories, ABB, and Cisco Systems until his retirement in 2006.

He was involved with New England Sports Committee with motocross and the Newmar Owners Group with his motorhome.

He thoroughly enjoyed the New England change of seasons, motocross, rving, football, Nascar, reading, Norwich Alumni and family.

He is survived by his sister Jill Pais of Rowley, MA. Son Darren Wilder of New Durham, NH. Daughter Alison Choquette of Auburn NH. Niece Amy Cole of Salisbury, MA. Nephews Brandon and Chris Pais of Rowley, MA. Former wife Pamela Wilder of New Durham, NH. Best friend Ben Martin of Escondido, CA. Friend Fred Ford of Hollis, NH.

A memorial service will be planned in the Fall. Gary did not want a funeral service.

Gary Wilder's family wishes to thank Huggins Hospital in Wolfeboro and Cornerstone VNA in Farmington, NH for their care and compassion.

Cremation care by Peaslee Funeral Home.